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The Tao of Marine Aquaria--Tips for Our Hobby and Life
Adam H. Whitlock
Continued from page 1Lesson Three: Relationships Take a Lot of Work
Because our hobby involves living creatures, our involvement in it must entail more than ownership; we must foster a relationship. As with any relationship, it will take a lot of work to make it successful. From the beginning, you owe a debt to your aquatic pets. They have been removed from their natural environment, roughly handled, subjected to the rigors of transport, and stressed by introduction to new surroundings (e.g., aquascape, water parameters, and tank mates) a number of times before they are netted a final time to be brought to your house. If we, as humans, were subjected to the same treatment, few of us would probably survive (read about the African slave trade for proof). And for what purpose? Our enjoyment. Ouch.
Is this an indictment of our hobby and a call for its ban? No. It is a wake-up call to all hobbyists to acknowledge the dark side of the hobby and to understand that responsible care of our fish and invertebrates is a serious responsibility and that our relationship as caretaker should not be taken lightly. This is a hands-on hobby that requires true dedication and an ambition to succeed. It also demands that we learn enough about our animals that we can work with them to maintain their health. If we are successful at keeping them happy and also succeed in learning about their lives and requirements, perhaps contributing to the body of knowledge that will help mankind protect and preserve their species in their natural environment, then maybe we can consider our debt to them repaid. Don't be a welsher. Put in the amount of work required or get out of the hobby.
Lesson Four: Love Hurts
As in any relationship, loss can be painful. I've spoken with dozens of aquarists who, like me, admit to having shed tears at the death of one of their fishes. Virtually all aquarists speak of how they "love" their favorite fish or coral. This is an indication of the depth of their relationship and should be appreciated, not ridiculed. It should also serve to warn us that our hobby has its disappointments and sorrows as well as its victories and joys. Death is an integral part of the experience of life and will come to us all in time. We can learn from the deaths that will inevitably occur in our tanks and grow, or we can let Death beat us by seeing it as only an end and giving up our hobby rather than feel the pain again. Which will you choose?
Love also carries with it responsibilities. Beyond witnessing death, we may have to become unwilling players in the drama from time to time. Our priorities seem clear when we act to wipe out a pest algae or a parasitic infestation to enhance the environment for our other tank inhabitants. Right and wrong become less clear, however, when you have to brutally exterminate a seemingly harmless crab that has started to prevent your corals from opening or has been nipping at your fish as they sleep. Yet your love may drive you to grind the hapless crab into its crevice with a screwdriver (since traps seldom work). Or you may have to euthanize a terminally ill fish (the kindest method, by the way, is to put it in a mixture of one part vodka to four parts tank water). How will you deal with it? Will you learn something of value, or be destroyed emotionally? Or will you ignore the entire event as unimportant? After all, denial ain't just a river in Egypt.
If you stay in the hobby for any length of time, you'll have the opportunity to see how you react to death. Don't trivialize the experience.
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